Greetings once again Children of the Night. Today the Dark Souls and I were honoured to receive a visit from the extremely talented Sharita Lira, who stopped by to tell us all why she loved writing M/M so much.
So pull up a chair, grab a glass of the red stuff and enjoy the words of Sharita.
Why
I Love Writing M/M
Sharita
Lira
Greetings readers! My post is a bit of
an update from the first few posts I made about the same subject. Since I’ve
been around the past year I’ve learned a lot and I wanted to restate the
reasons I love it!
In the beginning, it was about it being
taboo, it made me hot, etc but now, it’s more about the fact I love writing
romance. I discover with every story I write, I’m putting a little bit of
myself in every character, whether it’s my snarky side, my long winded, my love
for the overdramatic. Notice I said, overdramatic, doesn’t make me a drama
queen! *snicker* I do love the tension but occasionally, I love a story without
all the heartache. I like the fluff as my favorite fellow writer put it.
Ever since I was a teen, I loved reading
stories about romance and two people falling for one another. It started with
the cutesy Harlequins or my grandma’s Barbara Cortland novels and then I wanted
to know more about the steamy with Fern Michaels and Jackie Collins. In many people’s
eyes, those writers put together smut but hey, it had a romantic element, or
tried to. *grins* The bottom line is, it opened the door for what we know now
as erotic romance.
Then I started getting into Anne Rice
and much later, Zane, who writes erotica as well. The common thread? In those
stories there was something about two people connecting, finding a common
ground, and maybe love somewhere along the way. Perhaps it wasn’t clearly
stated, but reading between the lines, you saw something in those characters
that made you enjoy that book.
And so, that spurred me into wanting to
write my own but it wasn’t until I gained the confidence through encouragement
from friends and the fanfic community did I get the courage to publish. It took
me a while but here I am. Now, just like the writers before me, I enjoy writing
about two people connecting. Most of the time, I just like them to be two men.
Other than the genitalia, what’s the big difference? Men have feelings, desires;
they have their ultimate partner just like women do. They have hang-ups, fears,
some express their feelings openly, some do not. Why should writing m/m be
singled out?
Sure, a lot of men might fit what
society calls a “real man” but in Shar’s world, the characters may not always
fit that mold. They’re unique, most of the time imperfect, not always what
America considers as everyday males. They debunk stereotypes, cross over
boundaries, they’re human to me and they connect. I love that the most and as
much as I am a feminist, I love writing about the opposite sex.
So my ideas are better defined. Yeah it
still makes me hot, I love the taboo, but most important, I just love writing
romance and the fact that it’s between two men, shouldn’t be a big deal. It is
after all about human interaction. I enjoy it, and God willing, I’ll continue
to do to for years to come.
Thanks for listening.
Something
Fresh Served Hot from Something New on the Menu Series Book One
Blurb: A gay
contemporary comedy which features a Chicago homophobe by the name of Jimmy
LaCosta who works at a diner called the Greasy Spoon on the Northside
of Chicago near Boys Town. While working, Jimmy meets the incoming manager,
Alex Seidling, a young British man who his present boss is hiring to take his
place as he retires.
After
the initial meeting in which Jimmy feels uncomfortable with Alex's
stares, Jimmy cultivates a friendship with Alex which develops into something
totally different than he himself expects. This shocks him and he tries to
fight it but because of his growing feelings he decides to pursue it despite
all of what he has been taught.
Will he do what his body
wants? Will Alex accept his advances even though he will soon become Jimmy’s
boss?
Click here to read an excerpt
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Time
to Make the Donuts Something New on the Menu Series Book Two
Blurb:
Andre, a customer, comes in and pays him a visit. The
two lock eyes and immediately connect on a personal level. Because of this,
Christopher decides to pursue when Andre passes him his card. He wonders what
the young man does for a living however, he’s so smitten by him, Chris doesn’t
give it much thought.
Little does the shop owner know, Andre actually works for his
biggest competitor as a secret shopper and has been told to use any method
necessary to find out the secrets of the shop as well as convince him to sell
his shop and become part of the national chain.
When Christopher finds out, he has a surprise for Andre and deals
with him in a rather humorous way. Will he trust Andre once he finds out this
fact? Will he give up his shop under the pressure the well known franchise?
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read excerpt
Smooth
Like Latte Something New on the Menu Series Book Three
Blurb:
Brendan
Walsh is an uptight business executive working for his father and missing out
on real life due to his relentless drive for success. Fearing his homophobic
father’s wrath - and the potential to destroy his financial future - Brendan
hides is true orientation and lives a life of boring celibacy.
Upon
meeting Davori Jenkins when the hunky barista serves him a latte just the way
he likes it, Brendan takes a chance, leaving his number with the tip in the
hopes of changing his future love life.
Will
Brendan be able to come clean with his father - risking his fortune - or will
he take a chance at losing a man who he wants as his future?
Warning:
This is an m/m interracial romance. Real romance. Some sappiness is ahead with
two very good looking men who are searching for that happy ever after ending.
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here to
read an excerpt
Sugar
Daddy Something New on the Menu Series Book Four
Blurb:
Matthew Davidson wants a MAN! The setting shifts
away from the America’s to Britain where Matthew and his childhood friend,
Devon Peartly attend a cooking school to obtain their cooking certificates. The
young man wants a partner so badly, he decides he’ll try an online dating
service in hopes of finding a black man that can take care of and satisfy him
romantically.
He finds that man, Antwon Bantu on an online dating site and is instantly intrigued. Little does Matthew know that Antwon is involved in a “convenient” marriage and is seeking a younger partner so he can finally get on with his life. Instead of confessing the truth, he decides to hide it, fearing he’ll lose the chance with Matthew if he informs him. To complicate things, Antwon’s wife claims to be in love with him. Antwon must choose what’s more important; loving Matthew or saving his impeccable reputation as a top barrister in the London courts?
Which will he choose?
He finds that man, Antwon Bantu on an online dating site and is instantly intrigued. Little does Matthew know that Antwon is involved in a “convenient” marriage and is seeking a younger partner so he can finally get on with his life. Instead of confessing the truth, he decides to hide it, fearing he’ll lose the chance with Matthew if he informs him. To complicate things, Antwon’s wife claims to be in love with him. Antwon must choose what’s more important; loving Matthew or saving his impeccable reputation as a top barrister in the London courts?
Which will he choose?
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to read an excerpt
RAWIYA is
the more sensual erotica writer in the BLRawiya duo. Rawiya's first sole author
book, “Time to Make the Donuts” is now available in multiple digital formats
through online vendors and her first MMF Living In The Now was released in
April from Naughty Nights Press.
Rawiya loves multiracial characters who overcome obstacles other than race. Sweet, sassy, and spicy would be the best way to describe her work. Happily married mother of two, loves music, computers, and travel. She blogs regularly at Wicked Sexy Writers. For more please visit the Rawiya’s blog on Wordpress.
Rawiya loves multiracial characters who overcome obstacles other than race. Sweet, sassy, and spicy would be the best way to describe her work. Happily married mother of two, loves music, computers, and travel. She blogs regularly at Wicked Sexy Writers. For more please visit the Rawiya’s blog on Wordpress.
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2 comments:
TY for having me JS
Sharita, After reading your inspirations on writing M/M, I find we share common interests in books we read. Anne Rice 's Interview with a Vampire sealed my blood into passion when I stayed up and read the book in one night while I was living alone. I read more of her books subsequently. I want to thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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